The Other Side of Midnight - Richard C. Hoagland - Live Chat Thread

[(Sandman) Logan-5]

If you're enjoying each others company, who cares who pays

+5   Right On.

[Royal_Tenenbaum]

trostl and 21st. I haven't listened to that one. The one before that wasn't a fave. I will give it a go though.

[trostol]

trostl and 21st. I haven't listened to that one. The one before that wasn't a fave. I will give it a go though.

its a little...well..weird..but it is Bowie


https://youtu.be/kszLwBaC4Sw

[Rix Gins]

I'm copying the same reply I had to Mild Bill:[/b]

Not girlfriend!        Ex coworker and someone I couldn't stop admiring during that time (probably being creepy I guess..LOL)  We are just hanging out on occasion. I enjoy her company.  She turns heads, and I'd be lying if I didn't feel great just being seen with her. 

You must be a thrifty guy in real life, Shay.  LOL!

[Sandra Kristen]

If you're enjoying each others company, who cares who pays

It's a sign of where things are and her interest in Shay. Trust me.

[ShayP]

Ask her to hang out again and pay. That is a date. If she doesn't let you pay it wasn't a date.  Just some friendly advice from the other side.

Going dutch is still a date right?  Actually I really am not thinking of this as a date at all.  Trust me...I'd love for a shot but I'd rather just take things as they come and not press.  Basically, I'm fucking lost and I don't want things to be awkward, etc.  We worked together for 5 years and always had a good time.  I'm not being defeatist when I say this, but I am fine just seeing her whenever circumstance will allow.

[21st Century Man]

If you're enjoying each others company, who cares who pays

Right.  Just be natural.  Don't think about things too much.

[ShayP]

You must be a thrifty guy in real life, Shay.  LOL!

LOL...sometimes. 

[Royal_Tenenbaum]

I'm gonna mega crapps out. I will give the Bowie a shot. Love you all. Keep your mega dildos strong.

[Mild Bill]

Mild Bill.  I'm sorry I spazzed out on the other thread.  I didn't want to get into a religious discussion because someone had complained so I was trying to stifle my replies.  Not be overbearing and I'm afraid I came across as a bit overbearing and rude.   We may disagree about those things but you seem like a good guy.

No worries. No apologies necessary. I know you're a good guy, and that's all I need to know. Be well and have a great weekend

[trostol]

I'm gonna mega crapps out. I will give the Bowie a shot. Love you all. Keep your mega dildos strong.

dont watch the video...or do..the video is really ....weird..the song grows on you ...take it easy man

[ShayP]

It's a sign of where things are and her interest in Shay. Trust me.

That seems materialistic though.     I typically do offer to pay if it's a date.  Last time wasn't (to me).  Problem is...I'm broke.   

[ShayP]

I'm gonna mega crapps out. I will give the Bowie a shot. Love you all. Keep your mega dildos strong.

Be good Trey! 

[21st Century Man]

Going dutch is still a date right?  Actually I really am not thinking of this as a date at all.  Trust me...I'd love for a shot but I'd rather just take things as they come and not press.  Basically, I'm fucking lost and I don't want things to be awkward, etc.  We worked together for 5 years and always had a good time.  I'm not being defeatist when I say this, but I am fine just seeing her whenever circumstance will allow.
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Just look for the little things...hints.....  Don't overanalyze though.  That can mess you up.

[(Sandman) Logan-5]

I'm gonna mega crapps out. I will give the Bowie a shot. Love you all. Keep your mega dildos strong.

Enjoy the weekend R_T & Mega-D's 

[21st Century Man]

No worries. No apologies necessary. I know you're a good guy, and that's all I need to know. Be well and have a great weekend

You're a peach!!!      Hope you have a great weekend too and stay well.

[ShayP]

Just look for the little things...hints.....  Don't overanalyze though.  That can mess you up.

You are correct.  Great advice....truly.  I would over analyze because I haven't dated in 18 years.  Quite frankly...I really do not want any commitment.  But that is a future thing.  I'll just relax and take it as things happen.

[trostol]

https://youtu.be/C53QAuOoSgc

[Sandra Kristen]

Going dutch is still a date right?  Actually I really am not thinking of this as a date at all.  Trust me...I'd love for a shot but I'd rather just take things as they come and not press.  Basically, I'm fucking lost and I don't want things to be awkward, etc.  We worked together for 5 years and always had a good time.  I'm not being defeatist when I say this, but I am fine just seeing her whenever circumstance will allow.

Are you Dutch? It can be a date but, for me, that is just hanging out. Letting a guy pay is a sign of a date. It's a way of her letting you know it's a date and her potential interest. But one date doesn't mean we want to be in a relationship necessarily just that we're giving you a chance.  At least that is how I did it and pretty much all my friends. 

Just invite her out to dinner some time. It'll only be awkward, if she doesn't want to go out for dinner, and you make it awkward. But she'll probably say yes if she enjoys your company.

[ShayP]

https://youtu.be/C53QAuOoSgc

FUCK YEAH!!! I love Badfinger!

[21st Century Man]

That seems materialistic though.     I typically do offer to pay if it's a date.  Last time wasn't (to me).  Problem is...I'm broke.   

Maybe offer to pay when you have some money.  I don't know.  Do you think she might like you in that manner?  Any hints.  If not, she might decide you are getting some wrong ideas and back off the friendship.  We could use your input, Sandra.

Really just go with the flow.

[Dick Grinder]

Kaaarma-karma-karma-karma-karma Comiiiiiii-iiittee.

[Sandra Kristen]

That seems materialistic though.     I typically do offer to pay if it's a date.  Last time wasn't (to me).  Problem is...I'm broke.   

I may be a feminist but I did enjoy the benefits of being female when I was dating and single

[21st Century Man]

FUCK YEAH!!! I love Badfinger!

There you go. I'm going to pick one you might not know.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UvqPC6wgR8

[ShayP]

Are you Dutch?

YEAH!  From the waist down.   




I appreciate the advice my lady.  I'm still a bit fractured on what I want.  Right now...it's something simple and casual.  I will pick up a check though.   

[trostol]

https://youtu.be/fregObNcHC8

[ShayP]

I may be a feminist but I did enjoy the benefits of being female when I was dating and single

I'm old fashioned and I always went that way. 

[ShayP]

There you go. I'm going to pick one you might not know.

Thanks man!    I knew that one though.    Many others too. 

[Sandra Kristen]

Maybe offer to pay when you have some money.  I don't know.  Do you think she might like you in that manner?  Any hints.  If not, she might decide you are getting some wrong ideas and back off the friendship.  We could use your input, Sandra.

Really just go with the flow.

I don't care if guys like me as more than a friend, it's only when they get creepy and be a "nice guy" when rejected that I distance myself from them. That is always the biggest fear of a friendship being destroyed.

[Sandra Kristen]

https://youtu.be/fregObNcHC8

!!!! you rock tonight trostol