Not a joke: porn star marriages?

[Caruthers612]

   It always took me by surprise to learn that some well-known (not to me, of course, I never watch the stuff) porn performer was married. The men as well as the women, but since it's the babes I notice (or would, if I watched porn), I would always be stunned to learn that one of the most famous girls in the business, seen going down on and providing receptacles for more schlongs per year than Madonna in a month on Ibiza, had a hubby. Sometimes I'd hear these girls interviewed, and at least in some cases, they turned out to be not only intelligent, but clearly took their marriages seriously and very much loved their husbands.
   And so I began wondering about the nature of those relationships, knowing that they must vary from one another as all marriages do, and wondering from a psychological and behavioral point of view about the people, perspectives, feelings and so on of the individuals involved.
    I mean this to be a serious discussion, as anyone interested in human psychology, human nature, the possibilities for human relationships, etc., might find it fascinating upon considering it for a bit and a mind open enough to realize that not everything one may have been raised to believe was normal, possible or healthy may be so, and vice versa, and that there are more possibilities between heaven and earth than are dreamed of in Hector's philosophy. Hector was a kid in my first grade class. He was from Ecuador.

M

[EvB]

Woah - this is just beyond me. 

Can't imagine it.