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Started by nbirnes, July 01, 2015, 12:44:24 AM


BC

I started typing this, and by the time I finished almost another page of posts went up! I’m so slow!! Now I think you’ve all moved on!

Anyway, a few highlights of what I was going to post:

I was going to mention how I think Gravity may have misunderstood Ponyboy’s original post. Maybe when she wrote “Just because I don't agree with your opinion does not make you a bad person in my book” she wasn’t meaning you, Gravityâ€"she meant various posters in general. At least that’s how I read it. 

Ponyboy, I certainly agree with youâ€"especially the parts were you “wish[ed] everyone could just respect each other's views.”  I think you are respectful. I think part of the problem is people are talking over each other rather than to each other. I can’t for the life of me understand why someone has to viciously attack someone just because they don’t agree with them. I admire your ability to let it all roll off your back. I wish I could be that way.

Brig, you’ve said a couple of times that people have gotten on your case for your opinions. Honestly, I haven’t seen this on the threads. I haven’t seen anyone telling you that you are negative. But, then again, I could have missed something! Brig, you are well liked on BellGabâ€"you have every right to your opinions...here and everywhere you’d like to express them!  (Guess it’s too late for me to say Go Bills?)

Whitecrow, love the music!

Not sure it anyone’s interested, but This American Life had a great segment on trolls in a recent show. Here’s the linkâ€"#545: If You Don’t Have Anything Nice to Say, SAY IT IN ALL CAPS
It’s the first segment, starting at about the 3:35 minute mark, but the intro segment is good too...

http://feed.thisamericanlife.org/~r/talpodcast/~3/QIzdlVkFcV8/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say-say-it-in-all-caps

Lilith

Quote from: gabrielle on January 07, 2016, 03:54:03 PM
Thank You Brig.  You are a remarkable woman.  I have never intentionally wanted anyone to be quiet....but from now on I won't post unless I have taken the proper time to read the posts above for context.

Lesson learned.  Internet posting 101. Duh.

I have to go...I'm trying to catch up on some programs my brother and daughter watch, that I'm behind on. Post what you feel Gabby.  That's what I want to do, and that's what I intend to continue doing.  Sometimes it will be here in this thread, and sometimes it will be in other threads. No biggie.  :-*

gabrielle

Quote from: brig on January 07, 2016, 04:01:05 PM
I have to go...I'm trying to catch up on some programs my brother and daughter watch, that I'm behind on. Post what you feel Gabby.  That's what I want to do, and that's what I intend to continue doing.  Sometimes it will be here in this thread, and sometimes it will be in other threads. No biggie.  :-*

Love ya Brig.  Have fun.

Lilith

Quote from: BC on January 07, 2016, 03:59:06 PM
I started typing this, and by the time I finished almost another page of posts went up! I’m so slow!! Now I think you’ve all moved on!

Anyway, a few highlights of what I was going to post:

I was going to mention how I think Gravity may have misunderstood Ponyboy’s original post. Maybe when she wrote “Just because I don't agree with your opinion does not make you a bad person in my book” she wasn’t meaning you, Gravityâ€"she meant various posters in general. At least that’s how I read it. 

Ponyboy, I certainly agree with youâ€"especially the parts were you “wish[ed] everyone could just respect each other's views.”  I think you are respectful. I think part of the problem is people are talking over each other rather than to each other. I can’t for the life of me understand why someone has to viciously attack someone just because they don’t agree with them. I admire your ability to let it all roll off your back. I wish I could be that way.

Brig, you’ve said a couple of times that people have gotten on your case for your opinions. Honestly, I haven’t seen this on the threads. I haven’t seen anyone telling you that you are negative. But, then again, I could have missed something! Brig, you are well liked on BellGabâ€"you have every right to your opinions...here and everywhere you’d like to express them!  (Guess it’s too late for me to say Go Bills?)

Whitecrow, love the music!

Not sure it anyone’s interested, but This American Life had a great segment on trolls in a recent show. Here’s the linkâ€"#545: If You Don’t Have Anything Nice to Say, SAY IT IN ALL CAPS
It’s the first segment, starting at about the 3:35 minute mark, but the intro segment is good too...

http://feed.thisamericanlife.org/~r/talpodcast/~3/QIzdlVkFcV8/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say-say-it-in-all-caps

I don't mind people getting on my case for my opinions BC.....honestly I don't, its part of the challenge, part of the fun, its bellgab.  Thank you for your heartfelt support tho!   :-*

Now I really have to go lol's

WhiteCrow

Quote from: Ms. C on January 07, 2016, 03:43:52 PM

Edit:  Couldn't resist ...  8)    ;)

Nice try, Ms C ..but last time we tried, that peace thing didnt work...lately hasn't its "been" more like this:


https://youtu.be/oRjXFuRdbLk

GravitySucks

Quote from: BC on January 07, 2016, 03:59:06 PM


I was going to mention how I think Gravity may have misunderstood Ponyboy’s original post. Maybe when she wrote “Just because I don't agree with your opinion does not make you a bad person in my book” she wasn’t meaning you, Gravityâ€"she meant various posters in general. At least that’s how I read it. 



You may very well be right BC. I am an ornery old fart at times.

gabrielle

I love you all, am I allowed to say that? :) ;)

GravitySucks

Quote from: gabrielle on January 07, 2016, 04:17:12 PM
I love you all, am I allowed to say that? :) ;)

as long as you mean it.


WhiteCrow

Quote from: starrmtn001 on January 07, 2016, 03:57:37 PM
OMG WhiteCrow!  This is one of my TOP FAVORITE songs!!! ;D

Dearest Starr, White Crow is a rare bird indeed... knows a good woman's heart ;)  :-* 

WhiteCrow

Quote from: gabrielle on January 07, 2016, 04:17:12 PM
I love you all, am I allowed to say that? :) ;)

Sure why not?... I say it all the time... Is that like something wierd happ'in here?

gabrielle

Quote from: WhiteCrow on January 07, 2016, 04:29:45 PM
Sure why not?... I say it all the time... Is that like something wierd happ'in here?


https://youtu.be/gp5JCrSXkJY



gabrielle

Quote from: GravitySucks on January 07, 2016, 04:39:28 PM
But she's Canadian. They always ask permission.

Sorry....didn't mean to ask permission.  Sorry. :)

starrmtn001

Quote from: WhiteCrow on January 07, 2016, 04:26:49 PM
Dearest Starr, White Crow is a rare bird indeed... knows a good woman's heart ;)  :-*
Thank you WhiteCrow.  Sure wish the single ones did.

WhiteCrow

Quote from: brig on January 07, 2016, 04:01:05 PM
I have to go...I'm trying to catch up on some programs my brother and daughter watch, that I'm behind on. Post what you feel Gabby.  That's what I want to do, and that's what I intend to continue doing.  Sometimes it will be here in this thread, and sometimes it will be in other threads. No biggie.  :-*

Psssst... Come here close girls... I'll whisper it in your ear..
ms brig knows how to troll.. even though she isn't one, because trolls don't exist   "negativity"

gabrielle

BC...that is a very informative article.  6 months ago or so I thought a troll was a doll.  Wow. 

albrecht

Quote from: gabrielle on January 07, 2016, 04:46:12 PM
BC...that is a very informative article.  6 months ago or so I thought a troll was a doll.  Wow.
I always thought trolls were evil beings that lived under bridges or in the mountains and rocks. And when I learned of "internet trolling" I thought it meant in terms of trying to trick people- but now I know that internet practice is "phishing" and the internet troll comes from the original meaning of troll, not the fishing technique of trolling.

gabrielle

Quote from: albrecht on January 07, 2016, 04:52:56 PM
I always thought trolls were evil beings that lived under bridges or in the mountains and rocks. And when I learned of "internet trolling" I thought it meant in terms of trying to trick people- but now I know that internet practice is "phishing" and the internet troll comes from the original meaning of troll, not the fishing technique of trolling.

I know Albrecht.  It is all very confusing.  I still don't think I fully grasp the concept.  By the way, I really enjoy your posts in the politics thread. 

WhiteCrow

Quote from: starrmtn001 on January 07, 2016, 04:40:28 PM
Thank you WhiteCrow.  Sure wish the single ones did.

Oh Starr.. That may be the problem .. been looking for love in all the wrong places..  When its the 'heart' that matters  :-*


albrecht

Quote from: gabrielle on January 07, 2016, 04:55:52 PM
I know Albrecht.  It is all very confusing.  I still don't think I fully grasp the concept.  By the way, I really enjoy your posts in the politics thread.
Thanks, I'm not PC but try to be nice to people on a personal level and try to keep it on the 'politics' thread. But I don't like what is happening to Europe and here in some places.
ps: I'm not a troll but have quite a few reproductions of them. Here's a few...

GravitySucks

Quote from: WhiteCrow on January 07, 2016, 04:59:18 PM
Oh Starr.. That may be the problem .. been looking for love in all the wrong places..  When its the 'heart' that matters  :-*


http://youtu.be/1MnU6p3sGSw

gabrielle

Quote from: albrecht on January 07, 2016, 04:59:53 PM
Thanks, I'm not PC but try to be nice to people on a personal level and try to keep it on the 'politics' thread. But I don't like what is happening to Europe and here in some places.
ps: I'm not a troll but have quite a few reproductions of them. Here's a few...

those are awesome trolls Albrecht.  !!!!  Very cool.


Ms. C

Quote from: BC on January 07, 2016, 03:59:06 PM
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Not sure it anyone’s interested, but This American Life had a great segment on trolls in a recent show. Here’s the linkâ€"#545: If You Don’t Have Anything Nice to Say, SAY IT IN ALL CAPS
It’s the first segment, starting at about the 3:35 minute mark, but the intro segment is good too...

http://feed.thisamericanlife.org/~r/talpodcast/~3/QIzdlVkFcV8/if-you-dont-have-anything-nice-to-say-say-it-in-all-caps
Thank you so much BC, that was an excellent segment on trolls ... very interesting!





GravitySucks

Quote from: albrecht on January 07, 2016, 05:06:11 PM
But the girls always get prettier at closing time as the great Mickey Gilley reminds us:


I live about 10 miles from where Gilley's used to be in Pasadena. Used to have to go there every time I had an out of town guest. It was not a very nice place.

albrecht

Quote from: GravitySucks on January 07, 2016, 05:12:55 PM
I live about 10 miles from where Gilley's used to be in Pasadena. Used to have to go there every time I had an out of town guest. It was not a very nice place.
We are talking about Pasadena after all. No offense. Not sure it got much better even after Gilley's burnt down. The whole "cowboy chic" thing that swept the nation though was quite hilarious! Especially when the "fashion" designers etc got into the supposed cowboy-style. Classic.

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